Nigerian woman defends relationship with older partner, says 'peace of mind' is what counts

A young Nigerian woman, Omalicha Smart, has answered online critics who ridiculed her choice of partner after she posted pictures of a man she introduced as her husband. Since sharing images of the older man, whom she called a kind person with a heart of gold, she has received a wave of harsh comments. Some users even speculated that the man was her father, a claim she rejected by explaining that her own father died earlier this year. In a Facebook post on Monday, November 9, 2026, she addressed the speculation directly, writing: "Some of u that are saying that my husband is my father. My father is late." She added that he passed away earlier in the year and expressed hope that his soul continues to rest. Explaining her decision, Smart said she said yes to the man because he has never once insulted her or spoken to her disrespectfully. She described him as the desire of her heart, adding: "What matters is peace of mind and I love him so much." She said there was a specific reason she accepted him. According to her, since they began their relationship he has never insulted her or addressed her in a rude manner, and she characterized him as a good man with a heart of gold. Smart acknowledged that some people would criticise her or make all kinds of remarks, but said she is unconcerned. She noted that she had been in numerous relationships in the past that left her with regrets, whereas dating this man has brought her joy and she has lacked nothing since. She asked well-wishers to wish them well and congratulated the couple, confirming that she said yes to him.