Nigerian man warns about influential Abuja men seeking relationships with men

A Nigerian man has raised concerns about influential men in Abuja who, he alleges, approach other men for romantic relationships. In a video shared on X, he cautioned men not to dismiss such advances, saying some of these individuals may use different methods to manipulate those who reject them. He claimed that in Abuja, a man who has never been asked out by another man has not truly hustled. He told men not to respond with phrases such as 'God forbid' or 'Tufiakwa,' and instead advised them to pray. According to him, these individuals are not ordinary. He warned that they can be tempting and may manipulate a person, or, if that does not work, brainwash someone once food or gifts are accepted. The man, who identified himself as Hausa/Fulani, insisted that such encounters are real and urged men to be careful around influential people. He also advised against confronting or fighting them and stressed the need to keep evidence of any interaction. He said there are people one cannot touch, adding that such individuals leave no trace. Without evidence, he warned, a person could be sent to Kuje Prison.