DJ Kulet Warns Married Men Against Pursuing Her in DMs

Kudirat Salami, the disc jockey widely known as DJ Kulet, has delivered a blunt warning to married men who have been sending her private messages to pursue a romantic relationship. In a video posted on social media, she said she dislikes receiving Instagram messages from married men who address her with endearments such as “my wife,” “my love,” and “my baby.” According to her, those affectionate terms should be reserved for their own spouses. She stated that she had put up with such messages in her DMs for too long and told the men to stop. She warned that she would disrupt their homes if they continued, adding that she is a child of God and has no interest in what she described as rubbish. She said she recognizes the signals and code behind the messages and urged them to direct such behavior elsewhere. If they persist, she said, she would begin posting them, their wives, and their details, and if their marriages fall apart as a result, so be it. She also advised them to set boundaries with people of the opposite sex and repeated that men should stop entering her DMs and calling her “my wife,” stressing that she does not know them and they do not know her. She also addressed men who have proposed marriage to her. She asked who told them that marriage would complete her, and questioned whether that was the mindset their mothers had passed on—that marriage is what would make her a complete woman. She called for an end to such behavior. A video of her remarks was shared on social media.